If there’s anything I’ve learned in the last 10 years or so is that I can create my world with the words that I speak. Whether I meant them to come into fruition or not, things I say will inevitably come true.

I can get into the nitty gritty details of manifestation and how the words you speak holds power but for now, let’s keep it simple and say you create the world you live in with the things you say.

My dating experience has improved because of this. I date the kind of guys I want to date. I went from dating emotionally unavailable, disrespectful guys to men who love spoiling me and plan dates (I am currently shifting my manifestation to men who want to date me to men who want commitment and marriage with me – for me, the vibrations of those two words hold differently to me – which is why the words you speak are so important).

I also went through phases of wanting to date different guys (men who value their health, goes to the gym, likes to cook – I hate cooking) and I have started to attract men that meet these criteria.

My words have also backfired on me for when I used to joke around and say that I’d like to find a sugar daddy. And months later, I was getting hit on by older men, getting offers, and receiving DMs. It was NOT cool.

More recently, I just got offered a work from home job with better hours and better pay. And I have been talking about how I wanted a work from home job for about a year now.

In future posts, I can go over timelines. If it was so easy, everyone would be manifesting left and right. But there is so much more that goes into manifesting for WHY you aren’t receiving what you are wanting or why it’s taking a long time (it’s a learning curve for me, too).

All this to say, your words are meaningful and hold power, whether you believe it or not. Henry Ford wasn’t lying when he said, “Whether you think you can or you can’t, you’re right.” How you speak about yourself and the world around will always conform to your words and internal (subconcious) beliefs.

Speak with intentionality and purpose and see how your life start to shift.